This guide of wonderful naughty gifts will help you find the perfect one!
Time to do some discreet detective work. Start sizing up your target so you know what type of sex toy they’d love. The best part of gift giving is the surprise element… Well, second best because orgasms are the best. Here’s a guide full of sexy gifts by personality type – regardless of sexual orientation- because it has to be fun and special.
Before you do the detective work, make sure they are already sexually open with you. Like your bestie who knows all your sexy secrets and vice versa. A FWB or someone you’re already in a relationship with. Whether it’s a friend or lover (NOT a coworker or someone you don’t know well), the main thing is to make sure you aren’t crossing any boundaries and making your loved ones uncomfortable. For example, would you give your granny The Thruster??
Here’s a few other “detective” tips:
- Have a conversation without being obvious. Ask them questions like if they would use a sex toy and what they’re curious about. Share what YOU like and etc to prevent your cover being blown. This is supposed to be a light casual conversation and they have no clue that you’re sizing them up.
- Prioritize their pleasure, not yours. Don’t get them something that satisfies YOUR kink. That’s basically a gift for yourself.
- Gift the gift alone. Or if you are in a group setting, like a fiesta, tell them to open when they’re alone. These gifts are private.
*Also see: You Can Fuck Corn and Interesting Sex Toys For Men*
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Naughty Gifts For The Beginner
Know someone who is new to this? These sexy gifts are perfect for people who have never purchased or used a sex toy a day in their life. These are great introductions into the toy box for both men and women. Click each item to buy.
- OG Sucking Vibrator– What’s a better way to introduce sex toys to a newbie than with a toy with dual action? This toy stimulates two of the most intense lady parts at the same time- the g- spot and the clit. The clit sucker and g spot stimulator each has 10 modes to find the perfect dual action for the user. Intense.
- Tango– Bullet vibrators have been the sex toy industry’s favorite for decades. This is a perfect toy for someone who has zero sex toys. This bullet vibrator has 8 vibration modes that can be used on any part of the body such as nipples, scrotum, clit and any erogenous zone. It’s small but super powerful and can be used during sex or solo.
- Tenga Spinner Masturbation– This one of the best sexy gifts for him. A lot are already aware of the good, reliable and great fleshlight but this one takes masturbation on a whole new level. Unlike the fleshlight (which can also make a great beginner gift), this masturbation cup has an internal coil so the spinner gives you a twist while you enter the penis in it.
Naughty Gifts For The One Who “Has It All”
There are so many fun and shocking sex toys out there that even the seasoned ones are unaware of. These sexy gifts is for your friend or lover who seems to have it all. Both men and women can use these. Click each item to buy.
- Electrostimulation Toys– Sounds scary but I promise it’s not. It doesn’t even hurt! Electrostimulation toys are devices for sensational play. All it does is give certain areas of your body little electric currents. It’s a pulsating feeling. You ever put your tongue on a 9 volt battery as a kid? No? Just me? Well, if it was safe enough for me as a kid, it’s safe enough for your nipples, penis and inside of you.
- Rose Quartz Crystal Dildo– Rose Quartz is a spiritual crystal of love. This stone is for the heart chakra which focuses on love, forgiveness, confidence and trust. This is an incredible way to show love while being attentive to their pleasure. This toy has the same amazing benefits of a glass toy.
- Urethral Stimulation– Urethral stimulation (or urethral sounding) is a practice where you enter a small rod in the urethra of a penis. Inside the urethra of a penis is incredibly sensitive. You’re basically pleasuring your penis from the inside. Just like regular sex toys and dildos, it’s not supposed to be painful when done correctly… unless it’s your kink. The one who “has it all” definitely doesn’t have this one!
Naughty Gifts For Pain Lovers
There are many reasons why some people like to mix pain and pleasure. Sometimes it’s the same thing for some. These sexy gifts are for people who love pain. Click each item to buy.
- Steel Flogger– Some might be familiar with leather floggers but what we have here is a unique steel flogger. The steel flogger is new and exciting for someone who likes pain because it’s a different material. This steel flogger is perfect for someone who may already likes to be spanked with leather material.
- Pinwheel Spikes– Whether during solo or sex, this can be used gently where the sensation is light as a feather or with more pressure which gives pleasurable pain. This is a must for a pain lover because it’s very versatile. Your pain lover would appreciate this Wartenberg Pinwheel. Or maybe you’d rather give them something smaller.
- Nipple Clamps With Weight– Nipple clamps are common but these come with weight! These devices will give the sensation of nipple pinching and pulling simultaneously. Hands free so hands can be busy doing other things.
Naughty Gifts For Anal Lovers
These sexy gifts are for people who like it up the anus. There are so many nerve endings all over our body including the rectum. The rectum is one of the most sensitive areas to play with for both men and women- every has a booty hole. Men experience the most intense orgasm via prostate. Don’t forget the lube. Click each item to buy.
- Vibrating Inflatable Anal Plug– Not only does this baby inflate, it vibrates. This is perfect for the anal lover because not only does it act as an anal training device, it varies in size so it can be for the experienced anal lover as well. It’s a balloon that you enter in your ass attached to a device that allows you to manually pump air into.
- Le Wand– This anal wand is weighted because it’s made of steel. Just like glass sex toys, steel is known in the sex toy industry as a very hygienic material. You can also use this to do temperature play! Your anal lover will love the versatility.
- Rimming Plug– This is a very special gift for the anal lover. B-vibe is the only company that we know so far to offer a device that simulates rimming and has many sizes. This incredible device has a powerful tip that vibrates on areas a real tongue can reach. Also comes with a remote.
Naughty Gifts For BDSM Lovers (Doms and Subs)
We are huge fans of BDSM here. These sexy gifts are for your person who is into it as well. This list is a little longer because BDSM is a broad category. The pain lover list would be under here too. Click each item to buy.
- Anal Handcuffs– You or your BDSM lover will get a thrill out of this unique beauty. Surprise them with this hardly ever seen anal plug with handcuffs attached. Imagine being cuffed to a device that’s plugging one of your holes. This device is so much fun to use.
- Mouth Opener– Open up! This mouthpiece is the perfect gift for a sub with a useful mouth. Wrap this baby around their head, tie their hands behind their back and they are helpless.
- Or Shut UP!– This steel device is a great gift for a sub who talks too damn much. You are able to grasp the lips and tongue of your chatty sub between the rods. Then screw the device to make it tighter. It grabs tightly but never hurts. Here’s a list of other gags.
- Bite Gag– This gag is for subs who need something to bite on while receiving punishment. It’s made of quality shabiri rope. It is handmade. Give the gift of comfort for the sub.
- Spank Set– Gift this to a dom for when they are tired of using their hand or when the sub wants more intensity and pain. These leather paddles are not only made out of real leather, they come in different sizes so you have quality spanking sessions. These gorgeous paddles are long enough for a sub to use on themselves.
- Female Chastity Belt– This chastity belt for women comes with a twist. It comes with a vaginal and anal plug. This is an amazing gift for the sub. Not only does this gift keep them under control, it gives them even more pleasure with penetration.
- Male Chastity Belt– This is a gift of control for the male sub. What’s different about this male chastity belt than the others is that the sub might be able to pee. Unlike most of them in the Oxy Shop, this one is caged. This gift is perfect for the sub who cannot control their urges when they are instructed to.
- Face Fucker– This gift is perfect for someone who needs to masturbate while keeping their sub quiet. Their sub is just a sex toy, they’re not suppose to talk. Turn any subs face into a fucking device with this one.
Naughty Gifts For Likes To Play Dress Up
These sexy gifts are for people who like to immerse themselves in playtime and get all dressed up. Gift these role play lovers with some cool stuff to wear during playtime. They’d love to try these unique ideas on this gift guide. Click each item to buy.
- The Cheerleader– This is THE HOTTEST slutty cheerleader outfit we have ever seen. The additional harness straps make the hot cheerleader look like a little rebel. Maybe she’s cheering for naughty behavior in this sexy fire red uniform. “Give me an O!”
- Butt Plug Bunny– A lot of us love bunnies, especially bunnies who have a naughty little secret. This seductive set is made of vegan leather and huge black bunny ears. Gift a playful bunny with a surprise anal plug attached to their tail. A male bunny can use this as well.
- Robber Mask– This gift is perfect for the serious roleplayer who wants to hide their identity. You can play all sorts of roles in this one. Whether a burglar or stranger, this mask is for the thrill seekers.
- Flight Attendant– Mile High Airlines called and want their uniform back! This sexy blue flight attendant uniform comes in a tight little skirt that may show some cheeks and a crop top that shows some cleavage. Oh don’t forget the little hat needed for some head.
Naughty Gifts For Game Lovers
If your friend or lover is a game player, then they would love these games with a twist. We love intimate games like these because it allows us to learn about ourselves and each other. These games on this gift guide are for anyone over 18. Click each item to buy.
- Sex Talk Couples Card Game– This deep intimate game is for couples no matter what stage your relationship is in. It’s a 2 player game that is perfect for getting to know your partner on a deeper level. This is a gift of pure sexual communication.
- Monogamy– Monogamy isn’t for everyone but the game is. This game has over 400 seductive activities printed on the cards and the game has 3 levels. This way, no two games are the same. Give the gift of spontaneity.
- Bedroom Truth or Dare– Most of us are familiar with the game truth or dare. You have to choose either a truth or dare card and commit to it. This adult version has 120 cards to choose from. This gift is perfect for bold.
- Let’s Fuck– Pretty straight forward huh? This simple yet exciting game allows you to pull a card out of the 52 deck and commit to the acts printed on it. Every card has a sexy idea and things to do with your partner.
Naught Gifts For The Clit Orgasmer
This section makes sex toy gifting to a woman easy. Because most women orgasm via clitoral stimulation. These sexy gifts are for women who love clit play. Click each item to buy.
- Grinding Pad– This is THE MOST UNDERRATED sex toy yet! This Cali Exotics VIBRATING grinding pad has curves and bumps that allows you to grind on it with your clit, hitting the most incredible spots of your vulva. Actually anyone can hump on this toy but this is MY FAVORITE on my clit. Get this gift.
- Rose Clit Licker– This rose clit licker simulates oral sex while giving your anus stimulation. The tiny little flap flickers the clit like a tongue and is EXCELLENT paired with some lube. It is a very pleasurable clit experience especially when paired with the anal plug. This gift can keep anyone with a clit stuck in the house.
- We Vibe Touch– We Vibe touch is We Vibe’s best seller…. And for a reason. This intense clit vibrator comes with a remote for either solo play or sex between partners. It is small- only a few inches and can be taken anywhere. It places so nicely on the clit- it’s amazing fitting and…. Best seller for a reason.
- Clit Sucker– One of my favorite sexy gifts for her. This intense wand simulates clit sucking. You can actually use it to “suck” on any area of your body but this allows you to reach the gods when you use it on your clit. The bonus part of this toy is that the handle doubles as a dildo!! This is pretty much 2 gifts in one.
Naughty Gifts For Your Long Distance Lover
The greatest thing about modern day is technology. If your friend/lover is long distance, you can still get them off! These amazing devices on this list allow your friend or lover to get off with you or other people remotely. Each one of these sexy gifts has an app to download so one can control these devices from any distance. Click each item to buy.
- Long Distance Rabbit– The Rabbit has been a long time favorite in the industry because of its dual action. And now there’s many upgraded versions of it like this one. This amazing and very pretty device stimulates both the g spot and the clit. Drive your long distance lover wild with this orgasmic device with an app downloaded to your phone.
- King Thrust– One thing we know about ancient Egyptians is that they were sexually liberated people. This incredible mini fucking machine is like royalty. It has powerful thrusting action that can be controlled from long distance.
- We-Vibe Verge– You can use any toys on this list for men but we like to find devices that are made specifically for penises. This very comfortable quiet vibrating cock ring is perfect for your male long distance lover. It curves slightly so the vibrating tip can reach the scrotum. It has many different vibrating modes for pure pleasure
The Best Overall Sex Toy For Women
After browsing through hundreds of toys for this list and trying some, we found THE BEST overall sex toy for women. The Succion 3 in 1. This toy has a sucking device, licking features and can penetrate. What more can you freaking ask for?? Click item to buy.
This toy has many vibrating modes and can freaking lick and suck at the same time! Afterwards, the user can turn it around and fuck themselves senseless or it can double as a double ended toy for lesbian sex. Besides the Rose Clit Licker, this one is a favorite.
The Best Overall Sex Toy For Men
Named the World’s First Guybrator, this incredible penis device is a multi award winning device for men. Its insane technology allows you to sync with erotic content for a mind blowing interactive experience. Click item to buy
It is completely hands free and waterproof. It stimulates the most sensitive areas of the penis allowing you to have a hands free ejaculation. You can watch how it’s done with your own eyes how incredible this toy is.
I know how hard it is to find sexy gifts for men.
We promise that your lover or friend will LOVE one of these sexy gifts from this amazing gift guide. Comment on social media or comment below. Tell us which one you purchased and how your person reacted to it.
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