Why We Love Adult Dating Sites
Technically, all dating sites and apps are āadultā dating sitesā¦. But you and I both know what kind of adult dating sites we are referring to.
Most so-called traditional dating sites consist of fully clothed adults pretty much seeking confusion. Itās a mosh pit of some people seeking committed relationships, some looking for hookups, some willing to pretend they want commitment just to hook up and even vice versaā¦some looking for a third (or 4th or 5th…) and moreā¦ hell, some may not know AT ALL what they are looking for.
The beauty about the best adult dating sites isā¦. We all know what we came here for.
Donāt get me wrong. You can find love in the strangest places. I found love at strip clubs and many places where I least expected it. The common denominator during all of these events isā¦. I was being myself. I find that to be a hidden gem about hook up sites. For some reason, when looking for a mate on traditional sites, people tend to put on this persona so they can be chosen. With adult dating sites, youāre there to release all inhibitions. You show up with your kinks and dirty mind- which is the closest to being your authentic self in modern times.
But calm down, Iām not saying these are the best romantic connections either. We tend to lose our logical selves in these environments. And you need at least a little logic when youāre choosing a life partner.
So hereās what you really came for.
Whether you are single or in a relationship looking to add another person, there are two adult dating sites that I favor and have personal experience with. Below, you will have my review on both Adult Friend Finder and Alt.com.
A few notes about both:
– There are so many people who value their privacy on these sites so you donāt have to reveal your identity unless itās for safety concerns.
-Donāt embarrass me on these internet streets. PRACTICE SAFE SEX.
– Both LGBTQ friendly
Why Pay For Adult Dating Sites?
Adult Friend Finder
Adult Friend Finder is the G.O.A.T (Greatest Of All Time) of casual hookups. AFF was Tindering before Tinder was Tinder.
Today, it remains at the top of mine and many othersā list for a reason.
Iām going to start with a feature that I never noticed when I was a member here myself. You can video chat members here. So even if youāre not looking to meet people in person and youāre still kinda paranoid about the whole Rona thing, you can have virtual hookups.
As I mentioned before, AFF was tindering before tinder. Which means there are SO MANY MEMBERS to choose from even if you live in Lotsee, OK (the smallest town in the USA). There are so many horndogs on this site that you can find someone willing to meet up within hours. Not joking about that.
You can sign up for free. You need a free membership to browse the profiles so you can see for yourself if the site is worth your time. You donāt have to commit to anything here. But when youāre ready, these are your price options:
- If youāre willing to commit to one month, itās $39.95. You can do this on a month to month basis.
- If you know youāre going to be here for a bit, thereās an option to commit to 3 months for $26.95 each month.
- If you are a full blown, certified hedonistic sexy beast, thereās an option to commit to a full year for ONLY $19.95 per month.
It is worth every cent. To be honest, I didn’t last longer than a few months. It’s nearly impossible to not find what you’re looking for on Adult Friend Finder.
These prices unlock all forms of communication with the other members. Click here.
Alt.com
Alt.com is pretty much Adult Friend Finder but in leather. Both owned by the same dating network.
Altās specialty is in BDSM. Although you can just as easily find someone with a peculiar taste on AFF, Alt.com weeds out all of the āvanillasā and leaves people who want to explore sex in a different way. We love BDSM here and will never stop saying it.
There are a lot more men on this site than women. Iāve matched with more men in my area than women using the search engines and I am not picky AT ALL when it comes to women. But thereās some studs in there that swing all ways.
You can get a lot with the free version. Thereās chat rooms you can join, thereās a āHot or Notā feature for free, send friend requests- thereās a lot you can do for free here.
But you wonāt show up on the search engines of course.
Thereās two paid memberships available on Alt.com. Silver and Gold.
The SIlver membership prices are:
- Only $19.95 per month if youāre looking to do month to month.
- It gets better! ONLY $11.99 per month if you commit to three months!
- And just when you think it canāt get better than that, itās ONLY $8.99 per month if you commit to the full year!
These prices unlock messaging, access videos, blog posts and magazine features. I personally never looked at the magazine as a member so I am not sure whatās in there. I was in there for some action though!
The Gold membership prices are:
- $29.95 if you want to do it month to month.
- $19.95 per month if you commit to three months.
- $12.50 per month if you commit to a full year.
I personally never had a Gold membership but apparently, the Gold membership gets everything the Silver membership does. The difference is, the Gold membership puts you on top of every search engine. Thatās all I know about the Gold membership, I was never a Gold member.
Alt.com login HERE: Meet real BDSM partners now!
Why Pay For Adult Dating Sites?
Tinder is free (ish?), Facebook is free, I think Plenty of Fish is freeā¦.. So why in the world would you pay money for an adult dating site?
People tend to value what they pay for. This means on dating sites, people who pay for the service are very intentional and more than likely wonāt waste your time.
Paying avoids dead profiles and non responsive people. You will have a MUCH BETTER response rate with paid memberships. It is rare to see people pay for dating membership and not be active on it.
Weeds out SOME scammers. Donāt get me wrong, some people are invested in their scamming business. Read more about it HERE.
Conclusion
Adult dating sites go STRAIGHT. TO. THE. POINT. Even if you actually are looking for long term romance, people on adult dating sites are exposing their bare asses literally and figuratively which makes these types of connections way more intense.
Enjoy and please be safe. Click HERE for safety measures.
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