How To Have An Anal Orgasm- 13+ Tips To Intensify Your Sex

We’ll tell you how to have an anal orgasm… it’s possible for anyone.

An anal orgasm is a very intense one. It is worth exploring.

Anal sex (when the penis or object penetrates the anus) has both a fan club and a hate fan club. 90% of women who tried it have claimed to reach intense orgasm via anal. You read that right- anal sex is not only about the giver but the receiver (both men and women) can receive great pleasure from it as well.

Women have something called the A- Spot. It’s technically called the anterior fornix erogenous zone. It is an area deep in the vagina between the cervix and the bladder. It is passed the G spot so it’s pretty deep so if your fingers, dick or toy isn’t long enough, that’s where anal sex comes in.

The vaginal wall and rectum is separated by a very thin wall so anal sex indirectly stimulates the A-Spot. Because the A spot is not talked about or touched enough is probably the reason why women have intense orgasms via anal.

Men have the P- Spot. It is technically called the prostate gland. Its about two inches inside the rectum. It’s between the base of a man’s penis and anus.

That is why both men and women are able to have an anal orgasm.

You may not achieve anal orgasm at first but the more you do it, the more you like it and the closer you get. It is SO WORTH IT! Read below to learn how to do it correctly so you can enjoy it.

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Let’s go over what exactly happens during anal penetration.

The penis or whatever object is inserted in the anus aka butthole. The opening. Then whatever you’re sticking up there goes pass the external sphincter muscles and then the internal sphincter muscles. Sphincter muscles are basically muscles that are ring shaped and it goes around the anus. (You can see the woman’s external sphincter muscles relaxed and open in ad above). After the object goes pass those muscles, it enters the rectum. The rectum is an area that is connected to the colon.

What does anal feel like?

Anal penetration is intense in a good kind of way. There are so many sensitive nerves in and around the anus- which is why we suggest anal PLAY and teasing before anal penetration.

Anal or anal penetration is not suppose to hurt. When it hurts, it means the external sphincter muscles are not relaxed.

Relax… you won’t poop on anyone.

Despite what most people may think, poop is not stored in those areas unless you are simply not cleaned properly. Poop is stored in the colon, not anywhere before the rectum. Hopefully this information gives you peace of mind during anal play. Most people are afraid of anal because they think they may get poop everywhere. You more than likely don’t have poop in there.

Knowing this is one way how to enjoy anal sex.

So how do we do this?

For starters, we don’t recommend any numbing lube during anal play. It can dull your sensitivity and lead to anal injury… ouch! Normal lube is just fine and more fun. Numbing agents hinders the receivers ability to orgasms.

There’s actually lube made for anal sex that DOES NOT numb you. It’s called Intimate Earth Bliss Anal Relaxing Glide. It has ingredients with relaxing properties such as an extract from a chamomile plant.

Secondly, if you find yourself hurting but still curious, try anal training.  Anal training is when you use toys and fingers to play around and insert so you can get familiar with having something up there. B-Vibe has the BEST for tools for anything anal play. Anal is not suppose to hurt (unless we are talking about the good hurt…. if you know, you know hehe) so if it still hurts when you try it with a penis, you need more anal play or foreplay.

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How Achieve Anal Orgasm:

These tips will give you peace of mind. No worrying about accidents and/or pain. Here’s how to enjoy anal sex because when you enjoy it, anal orgasms are possible.

  1. Stimulate other areas of the body during anal penetration. Playing with nipples, kissing on the neck, hand holding, back rubbing, feather play and more. Doing this keeps the receiver OUT OF THEIR HEAD and into their body.
  2. Your diet. Some may be able to do it without preparing but anal needs preparation most of the time. Make sure you eat clean ahead of time and prevent foods and drinks that upset your stomach! It takes over 2 hours for your food to turn into poop and enter the colon connected to the rectum. So you have some time after a meal.
  3. Do not go from anal to vaginal. It causes infection and irritation. 
  4. Relax. Relaxation is important. Being tense will tighten your anus up. If the receiver is not ready, DO NOT CONTINUE.
  5. Start small and slow. “Just the tip” as they would say. Do not jam it in right away. Start with the tip slowly.
  6. Have a trusting partner. To us, this is a very intimate experience because anal requires trust and communication.
  7. Try different positions. Doggy style is not the only way. There’s a few anal sex positions like missionary, spooning- whatever floats your boat.
  8. For men, the prostate which is up your ass, is your magical spot for orgasms.
  9. DO NOT mimic anything you see in porn. It’s important for both parties to be comfortable in their own way.
  10. Make sure your pipes are clean before the act. Again, poop is not stored in the rectum- just make sure you showered.
  11. *****One way ease it in, the receiver should push out while the giver pushes in. Pushing out relaxes the external sphincter muscles.*** (Our favorite tip.)
  12. DON’T do it if you’re not thrilled to try it. Don’t do it for anyone but yourself.
  13. LET GO of any expectations. Go with the flow. If it doesn’t work out, that is ok.
  14. Get reliable tools from places like B-Vibe. B-Vibe SPECIALIZES in everything anal so they are reliable and trustworthy.

If you don’t like anal penetration at first, it’s worth trying it again. It has been said that the most intense orgasms for the receiver were from anal sex.

The most intense orgasm FOR ME was via anal. Mostly because I went into it not expecting anything.

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