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What makes a beautiful porn?
It’s when everyone involved is authentically expressing their own sexual creativity.
Anti-porn activists DO have a point. It is true that most porn, especially porn on tube sites are unethical, not safe, abusive, exploitative, degrading and possibly have underaged performers. I agree that tube sites are too easily accessed by children. But what I DON’T agree with is abolishing porn completely.
Anti-porn activists do not realize they are being counterproductive sometimes. The original point of their movement was to bring awareness to the violence and mistreatment on porn sets…. But pushing to abolish porn completely actually perpetuates the stigma and violence against sex workers.
Sex is part of being human. Sex is art. Pushing to completely shut down porn is asking people to completely shut down a part of themselves.
We should normalize safe porn. When we normalize sex work and watching porn, it creates an environment where everyone feels safe to be themselves and express their sexuality. Considering it is SEX, a very vulnerable act, all porn should be safe and respectful porn.
Make no mistake. SAFE porn does not necessarily mean SOFT porn. Yes, it includes soft porn but it also includes styles like BDSM. Safe porn means consent and fair treatment.
Safe porn means a work environment that allows you to be vulnerable. Vulnerability is beautiful when it comes to making love and art- a recipe for passionate porn. Safe and respectful porn allows performers to be in the moment and create true art. This is something you don’t get on tube sites.
Prioritizing respect and individuality leads to better work conditions, reduced shame and extremely beautiful porn for viewers. Safe and respectful porn allows performers to be in the moment and create true art. This is something you don’t get on tube sites.
Unlike mainstream porn, respectful and safe porn also allows the viewers to connect with the performers because of its depiction of REAL orgasms of both men and women and REAL bodies. The diversity makes the viewers feel some sort of validation, makes them feel seen. Authenticity creates powerful connections- that is a rule of life.
The List of Safe Porn
Here are some ethical porn companies that produce beautiful porn:
Else Cinema
1. Else Cinema– Else Cinema is my FAVORITE company for passionate porn, this is why it’s the first on this list. I mentioned in my sensual porn post how hypnotic the films are. The way the performers move their bodies, the sensual music… It’s like the cameras are not even there.
But they are definitely there. The camera quality is top notch giving you an erotic cinematic experience. My favorite quote from the site directly- “We explore what sex feels like instead of showing you close-up, gynecological shots of what it looks like…”
Else Cinema is one of the view porn membership sites that give you a pay per view option AND a monthly membership fee option. You get one free film if you sign up to the newsletter.
The prices are:
- $11.99 for 1 month
- $29.99 for 3 months
- $107.95 for 12 months
Pretty dang reasonable for the quality you’re getting.
XConfessions
2. XConfessions– This company is created by the same filmmaker who created Else Cinema- Erika Lust. This means the same beautiful erotic cinematic experience but with a twist!
XConfessions is a beautiful porn site that creates films based on the erotic fantasies viewers submit! All you have to do is be a member and submit an erotic fantasy you’d like to see. If your submission is chosen, not only will this company make your fantasies come alive with high quality equipment, you get a year membership FOR FREE!
This company is so ethical that they care about the performers AND connecting with YOU, their audience.
You get one free film if you sign up to the newsletter.
The prices are:
- $34.95 for 1 month
- $125.70 for 6 months
- $143.40 for 12 months
Lust Cinema
3. Lust Cinema– Another Erika Lust company (last one I swear lol!) so WE KNOW the films are quality!
Ethical porn doesn’t mean soft porn. Lust Cinema specializes in super passionate and hardcore sex. Ethically of course.
Lust Cinema shows the world what it’s like to produce beautiful art behind the scenes with their interviews of the staff. This company connects with the viewers by being authentic and vulnerable- just like how you’d connect with any human in the world.
Let’s put it this way– XConfessions creates connection by letting the viewers speak and Lust Cinema creates connection by telling you their own stories.
Such a beautiful thing!
The prices are:
- $34.95 for 1 month
- $65.95 for 3 months
- $139.95 for 12 months
Sssh
4. Sssh– This company has it all. Not only beautifully produced films, podcasts, stories to read, photos, VR porn and just like XConfessions, they are crowd sourced! This company interacts with their audience and makes their fantasies come alive right on their screens!
Sssh is one of the original female pleasure centered companies. Founded in the 90s, Sssh was created when Angie Rountree was tired of the lack of mutual pleasure depicted in porn films.
Real orgasms mixed with fantasy this company has THOUSANDS of videos, pictures and more content to choose from.
And the prices are amazing! For only $4.95, you can try the website out for 2 days. Then you can upgrade to the following:
- $19.95 for 1 month
- $54.95 for 3 months
- $95.95 for 12 months
Frolic Me
5. Frolic Me– As mentioned in my sensual porn post, this sensual porn company is SO ROMANTIC. This passionate porn depicts hardcore love making where it almost looks like poetry writing with bodies.
Frolic Me knows sex starts in the mind and is mostly in the mind. The romantic storylines will get you worked up. What I love about this company is the excessive amount of foreplay it involves.
Frolic Me is definitely female pleasure centered. But both men and women can get a kick out of it. I say men can learn how to be better lovers from this!
The prices are:
- $6.05 for 1 week trial
- $12.20 for recurring monthly
- $28.10 for a single month
- $61.10 for a year
Kink
6. Kink- Hey…. remember I said safe porn or respectful porn didn’t necessarily mean SOFT porn. We got some rough kinky sex too!
It’s pretty clear that a lot of BDSM videos out there look a little shady and forced. But not Kink.com
Kink is THE BIGGEST BDSM kink porn site out there. And they PRIDE THEMSELVES for being ethical. They prioritize respect and trust which is crucial in all BDSM environments. Word on the street, they treat their employees (non performers) very well.
I personally love BDSM so I enjoyed Kink.com. You can see the beautiful love marks in 4k, beautiful people getting spanked, tied and gagged like the good little sex slaves they are.
The prices:
- $39.99 for 1 month
- $89.97 for 3 months
- $139.99 for 6 months
- $179.99 for 12 months
Unlike mainstream porn, respectful and safe porn pays everyone FAIRLY. Most ethical porn sites are not free but they deliver quality that mainstream porn does not offer.
Enjoy!
