Sexual alchemy is sex magic that can be used for creations outside of sex.
And magic is not only for kids and fairy tales.
Imagine having a God-like power that you can use to create the reality you want. An energetic force in your body that drives you to create the body of your dreams, to go after the career you want, to help you attract or manifest anything you desire.
You already have it. You were born with this power. The earth, universe and all things living exist because of it. Only something powerful has the ability to do something like this and all living things have it. Our sex energy.
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The Power Of Sexual Energy
Sexual energy is so powerful that when one is sexually aroused, it suppresses parts of the brain that is responsible for executive functions like decision making, memory and attention. It can overcome one’s entire being to the point where lives are negatively impacted. We see this repeatedly in things like sex scandals and with people who have destructive sex. There have been many examples throughout history of people destroying their lives because of their sexual urges.
Even when one tries to suppress this energy, it is still there. Suppression of our biological nature almost always has a severe negative impact on our existence. For example, emotional suppression leads to mental distress like depression and memory loss. Emotional suppression can also show up in detrimental ways in the body like cancer and heart disease. Imagine what sexual suppression does.
So if sexual energy is so powerful that it has the ability to destroy lives and create lives and it is something that we can’t exactly avoid or suppress, imagine what you can do with it when you have the ability to control it and make this sort of power your ally. That’s where sexual alchemy.
Sexual Transmutation
It must be noted that there is a huge difference between sexual suppression and sexual discipline. It is not the same thing. Suppressing sexual energy is like giving birth to a child then ignoring the child. Sexual discipline on the other hand is like giving birth to a child and raising it properly.
Since suppression of any kind of biological force can be detrimental, you can practice sexual discipline by practicing sexual transmutation. Sexual transmutation is when you direct sexual energy with the intention of using this powerful force to create reality and reach goals. You can use this energy for a much higher purpose.
Almost every religion recognizes the power of sex and knows the impact it has on the relationship with self and the higher being. It is mentioned in almost every religious book and while some religions encourage you to use it, many condition you to fear it. While I do agree that the act of sex itself can distract you from the life you want, the mistake many religions make is they are not telling you how to USE and transmute your sexual energy.
Sexual power is a very spiritual force even if you’re not spiritual or religious, it is at least very metaphysical. If you want to be closer to the higher being you believe in, instead of sexual suppression, do sexual transmutation. Don’t ignore urges, direct it. You can do this without engaging in sexual activity.
But there is absolutely nothing wrong with engaging in sexual activity- whether it’s alone or not. Whatever your beliefs or non beliefs are, your sexual energy is still there. My point here is, you can use sexual energy for a much higher purpose than just orgasming. In fact, you have the option of forgetting the orgasm altogether to practice edging.
Sexual transmutation increases motivation, drive, focus, energy, mood, confidence and just like tantra, it increases self awareness and mind-body connection.
How To Transmute Sexual Energy
Sexual alchemy takes practice.
Something so powerful and so ingrained in us will not take overnight to transmute. Even witches and wizards have to go through training in order to harness the inner power they already have.
Here are a few tips:
- Practice mind-body connection via meditation. Meditation doesn’t have to be long and complicated. You can even just sit with yourself for 5 minutes and practice mindfulness and being present. It takes time to rewire your brain.
- Don’t forget to breathe. Taking deep breaths actually changes your brain. It releases toxic thought patterns and calms the mind.
- Be open, don’t expect. Expecting this experiment to go a certain way can prevent you from receiving the benefits. Let things flow naturally.
- Self love is very important. Self love is self trust and no self judgment.
The 7 Day Experiment
For 7 days, abstain from any sexual activity- including masturbation. From there, decide what path works for you. Abstinence, edging or any sexual expression.
With Abstinence, sexual energy can be directed into reaching your goals. Notice how one is sexually motivated, it’s animalistic and impulsive? You can redirect that same energy into your goals. Try watching something erotic, feel the burning desire and energy building in your body. Harvest that energy and redirect it into your goals.
With edging, replace orgasm with a goal of yours. The powerful sexual energy used to orgasm and be used for goal reaching the same way abstinence can.
With sexual expression, it’s a little different. As you orgasm, imagine your goal being your reality. This creates a major imprint in your subconscious mind and your subconscious mind is responsible for most of your conscious actions.
When reaching goals, disregard them as sexual energy. Consider it a drive that can take you anywhere you want.
It is as simple as that. All 3 methods are a form of sexual transmutation.
