What are some things you think are missing from your sex toy box?
I am willing to bet there’s something on this list that you had no idea you needed for your hoe bag.
Condoms, Plan B if condom breaks, lube, vibrators, …. These are the very basic essentials in a sex toy box, sex drawer, hoe bag or wherever you stash your sexy stuff- maybe even in your DIY sex dungeon.
Both sexually active men and sexually active women can and should have one. A hoe bag, sex toy box, sex drawer- whatever. We all should be prepared- don’t expect or assume the other party came ready. You’re supposed to let go during sex, be in the moment without little pesky things getting in the way..
You may THINK you have it all covered, you may even have almost everything on the sex toy gift guide … but there are some sexy stuff that you didn’t know you needed.
Dry mouth, limp penis, irritation– these are just a few things most don’t think about beforehand that can kill the mood. These things can happen unexpectedly! So how do you get ready for sex? How do you make sex better and prevent these things from happening?
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These items below will answer some of that! You can thank me later.
UV Sterilizer Pouch
1. UV Sterilizer Pouch– This travel friendly bad boy kills over 99% of harmful bacteria from your sex toy. You didn’t think you needed this because you might’ve thought a simple soap and water would do…. Nope! Unless your sex toys are glass, most devices are porous and it could be hard to kill all bacteria.
That’s where this UV cleaner comes in. After washing off lube and body fluids with soap and water or wet wipes, make sure your toy is dry before putting it in this pouch. All you have to do is press a button and after only 3 minutes, you have a super safe toy you can use again. You won’t get any bacterial infection or STIs after using this. This is a must for your sex toy box.
Organic Toy Cleaner
2. Organic Toy Cleaner– You more than likely know about toy cleaners. Many of them are actually toxic. It’s very unfortunate that many sex care products contain chemicals like parabens and triclosan- an endocrine disrupting chemical. Our genitals are sensitive areas! I don’t get it!
This toy cleaner contains castor oil and tea tree oil. Both natural ingredients that are antifungal and antibacterial. This vegan product contains NO harsh chemicals so there is no irritation. You need this to avoid the consequences of harsh chemicals.
Spanking Powder
3. Spanking Powder– There have been many times of me getting lost in the moment receiving the pain that I love. The thing is, when you’re aroused, your pain tolerance increases. You can take the hard spankings like a champ. Your body releases chemicals similar to opioids which gives you euphoria. But when playtime is over, the pain starts rushing in.
Soothe your cheeks (or wherever) with this spanking powder. This powder has a cooling effect that can soothe the sting. As a lover of BDSM, it is well known how important after care is. Only the one who inflicts the pain can take it away. This is needed for a bonding moment. That is what makes BDSM relationships so intense.
Spanking Cream
4. Spanking Cream– Maybe you’re a full blown pain addict. You love sex rough. Hey, it’s better than substance abuse. Like I said before, pain releases chemicals that act like a painkiller you get from the pharmacy. It’s a controlled substance because it is addictive and harmful. Spanking is not as bad.
This cream intensifies the impact of rough sex and spanking. If you are an addict or close to being one like me, use this cream to enhance the sting of a paddle or palm of a hand. You need this to prevent you from seeking pain that your body can’t take.
Anal Douche
5. Anal Douche With Interchangeable Nozzles– Anal lovers know cleaning the pipes before and after is part of the game. But what most anal lovers don’t know is, cleaning time can actually give you an orgasm.
Whether you’re a man who likes prostate play or a woman who wants it anally, this douching device comes with 3 different textured nozzles. One of them is curved so you can stimulate the most intense areas. You need this because it will make you enthusiastic about cleaning. This is also perfect for foreplay.
Lube Applicator
6. Lube Applicator– The anus is pretty tight and it can be a little difficult to get the right amount of lube up there. Not only that, you can get lube all over your fingers then all over your bedding- or wherever you’re playing. Some people do not like the feeling of the excessive stickiness between their cheeks when anal play is over.
Thankfully, there is a mess free device for you. This lube applicator is not only for anal, you can stick it up any hole that’s about to be penetrated. This item is a must have to prevent excessive stickiness. There’s 3 that come in a pack because sharing is NOT caring when it comes to anal penetration. There is enough in there for up to three people.
Killer Bee Libido Booster
7. Killer Bee Libido Supplement– As someone who is a regular at adult toy shops, I see A LOT of libido boosting supplements. Most of them were a failure. I turned my back on them until a friend introduced me to this stuff and praised it so I had to try it myself.
Killer Bee fucking works. At least for me. Male version contains an herb called Tongkat Ali Root which increases testosterone. For women, it contains horny goat weed and ginseng. It kicks in about an hour. You need this in your sex toy box because it works.
Clitorial Stimulating Gell
8. Clitorial Stimulating Gel– Most of us know that the clit has over 10,000 nerves. The problem is, some have trouble finding it. If you need help, read How To Make A Woman Orgasm. Women also have a longer time orgasming than men. Whether you’re having a heterosexual or homosexual playtime, blow her mind with this stuff- make her cum faster.
This clit stimulating gel enhances the arousal of the clit, making it expand, easier to find and increases mind blowing sensation. The peppermint oil in this stuff increases the stimulation of the clit. It is mind blowing.
Mouth Watering Mints
9. Mouth Watering Mints– Imagine having a date night with some wine, maybe a bit of 420…. You’re feeling good, the naughty teasing starts, things get hot and heavy… you go downtown on someone but dammit, you have cotton mouth from the wine or 420. Or maybe you simply did not hydrate.
These saliva-inducing mints not only freshen your breath, it makes oral sex more enjoyable. You need these in your sex toy box in case someone has cottonmouth. Make oral sex enjoyable for both the giver and receiver with these mints.
Dry Mouth Spray
10. Dry Mouth Spray– Instead of the saliva inducing mints, try a mouth watering spray. I personally prefer the spray because it’s quicker. This one is in my sex toy box. 420 makes my mouth dry and sometimes I want to put my mouth on it NOW.
There’s other flavors available but apple is the only one I’ve tried and I love the flavor so much. What I love about this spray is that it has no parabens or sugar. Both are terrible for genitalia.
Arousal Oil
11. Arousal Oil– Wouldn’t it be fun to be in a heightened state of arousal? To feel super orgasmic, sexy and sensual?
This arousal oil has directions to apply on the clit… but it can also be used on nipples, penises- wherever you want on your body. I love this on my nipples. This oil comes in 3 versions- Ultra (the one I used) which is 24% more intense than the original, a Lite Version which is 50% less intense than the Original and then we have the original. I am a “go big or go home” person so I went straight to the Ultra version lol. Browse around for the others.
Which item on this list of sexy stuff did you need for your hoe bag or sex toy box?
