Imagine being or having a hotwife who is so hot that other men MUST get a piece…..

Men sharing their wives is more common than you think.

When people imagine their partner with other people in any sexual way, most would have an immediate reaction of jealousy, pain and anxiety. But maybe those highly intense emotions is the reason why there’s many men sharing their wives. The intensity is what makes it so appealing.

The tabooness of women having multiple sex partners is also why this sort of lifestyle is so intriguing to most. Women are likely to be seen as dirty, low quality or problematic when they are sexually adventurous unlike men- who are praised for such actions. A woman being in control of her sexuality is still seen as a threat to society and there is something so erotic about going against the grain.

Society sees men who allow their wives to sleep with other men as a disgrace, unmanly and a doormat…. But maybe it’s actually the opposite. Maybe there is actually power and control in being a man who agrees to this lifestyle.

Men Sharing Their Wives Is Biological

The shape of the penis head was evolved to pump out the semen of male competition so nature doesn’t have a problem with men sharing their wives. In fact, researchers say that men produce more sperm and quality sperm in order to “beat” their male competition.

Men are competitive in nature due to their levels of testosterone. Testosterone is linked to status seeking behavior. A man seeing his woman with other men ignites a fire within them. That fire makes a stag want to conquer while that same fire fuels shame seeking cucks.

These arrangements get men with these kinks harder faster, it makes them orgasm harder, keeps them hard and allows them to go multiple rounds. The influx of adrenaline and endorphins due to the tabooness and jealousy drives these men crazy.

So not only are these men physically competing by producing more sperm and having harder orgasms, it’s psychological.

Men who allow their women to sleep with other men are called either a cuck or a stag.

Women who are in committed relationships and sleep with other men are called a hotwife or a vixen.

Having a vixen or hotwife kink is not so crazy after all.

There are many ways people practice open relationships and this is one of them.

The Stag & The Cuck- The Male Role Explanation

Because of societal expectations, most people assume a man who lets his woman sleep with other men is weak and less than a man. When it’s consensual, it’s actually the opposite. The men sharing their wives are true to themselves, know what they want and bold enough to go against the grain. No one can tell men like this what they should and should not like. 

The Cuck

A cuck is a man who has a humiliation and infidelity fantasy. He gets off on being emasculated and seeing his woman getting more pleasure from other men than she does with him. A cuck would go as far as getting off on the idea that his woman may be impregnated by another man. He enjoys being submissive and seen as inferior. 

A cuck never joins his woman in her sexual adventures. He either watches in person, on video, sees photos and/or hears about it. A cuck remains faithful to his woman because it perpetuates the weak and submissive role even further.

Keep in mind this is a fantasy and both the cuck and his woman consents to this. There isn’t any actual betrayal because the man is aware of his woman’s behavior and agrees to participate.

The woman in this situation is usually called a hotwife. Cuckolding and the hotwife kink is more common than you may think.

The Stag

A stag is a man who gets off on hot and desirable his woman is. He likes to let other men know she’s amazing in bed and by letting them have a piece of the action. A stag loves it when other men crave her physically. 

A stag gets an ego stroke from his woman being this sexually liberated. Her freedom of sexual choice makes the fact that she chooses him more enjoyable. A stag loves letting others know his wild and free woman belongs to HIM.

Unlike a cuck, this is not about humiliation or infidelity. A stag is more of a show off and he’s dominant. He likes the fact that he’s the man with the prize.

A stag always participates in his woman’s sexual adventures. He either watches or joins in a FMM (female, male, male) threesome. A stag is just as much in control as his woman.

The woman in this situation is usually called a vixen. Stag and vixen are usually paired.

There are names for men like this. They are either called a cuck or a stag. Both terms describe men who enjoy their women with other men. 

Hotwife & Vixen Wife- Explaining the Female Role

“Hotwife” and “vixen wife” are both terms used in non monogamy communities to describe a woman in a committed relationship who sleeps with other men. The hotwife kink is more common.

Although both describe a taken woman who sleeps with other men, there are a few key differences.

The Hotwife

A hotwife is a woman in a committed relationship with a man who encourages her to sleep with other men. The biggest component in a hotwife kink is that this is the man’s fantasy. He may do things like pick out the man, pick out her outfits and provide supplies like lube and condoms.

Sometimes the man enjoys the humiliation and sometimes it is simply his kink. The man in this situation is highly aroused by the fact that other men desire and sleep with his wife. He doesn’t have to be present when his woman is f*cking other men. Some like to watch and some simply like to hear about it. 

Keep in mind, although this is the man’s kink, the wife involved also consents and enjoys this too.

The man in a hotwife kink situation is usually called a cuck.

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The Vixen Wife

A vixen wife is also a woman in a committed relationship who sleeps with other men but this time, it is for HER. Even though a hotwife has a say as well, a vixen wife sleeps with other men for her own pleasure with the consent of her man.

A vixen wife is liberated and loves to explore her sexuality. She loves it when her man watches her with other men and sometimes he joins in a FMM (female, male and male)  threesome. Her sexual energy is wild and free but only under the supervision of her man. She loves to be her man’s little porn star.

The man in a vixen situation is usually called a stag. Stag and vixen are usually paired.

The Benefits

Many people in general get joy and sexual arousal from others’ joy and sexual arousal. People enjoy seeing their partners fulfilled and satisfied.

Just like general open relationships, there are benefits to these sorts of arrangements. Men seeing their women with other men comes with serious benefits.

The Benefits

  1. Intense arousal. The tabooness, the jealousy, egos and lust. The energy of these extreme emotions fuels an intense arousal that cannot occur in any other situation. It makes one feel alive.
  2. Nearly unbreakable bond. The amount of trust, communication and commitment it takes to participate in these arrangements created a strong bond between the people in the committed relationship.
  3. Live personal porn. Porn is pretty popular. These arrangements is like having your own personal porn performance IN PERSON starring the person you love and are attracted to. It’s like taking your favorite porn star home after watching them live. 
  4. Relationship with self. These taboo arrangements encourage a person to look inside themselves and stay true to who they are despite societal norms. This is an excellent way to form a better bond with the self and know exactly who they are as a person.

Conclusion

There is power in sexual tabooness. People who are true to themselves doesn’t let society sway. Taboo doesn’t always mean wrong. It’s ok for women to have multiple men and it’s ok for her man to enjoy it.

See the open relationship post to see HOW you can participate.