Slip And Slide.. The Adult Version (Best Sex Lubes)

Tired of being sticky? Keep reading for the best sex lubes

The best sex lubes make anything sexual much better. It’s fun for masturbation AND with partners so whatever the status of your sex life is, lubrication will make things easier. But aren’t you TIRED of lubes that get sticky, dry up too fast, smell awful, might be harmful and then some? I still have many bottles of lube in my nightstands that I don’t care to use again. (Should I donate them to charity??) So I’ve tried a lot and narrowed the best sex lubes down. I also discovered products and ingredients you might have at home already to make a homemade sex lube.

When shopping for lubes, make sure you read the ingredients. There are ingredients that could be harmful such as: Benzcaine, propylene glycol, petroleum oils, sugars (yes some lubes have sugar), glycerine, ureas, Nonoxynol 9 and Polyquaternium-15, parabens and Chlorhexidine gluconate…  these ingredients can cause irritation and long term use for some of these ingredients could be harmful.

Make sure your lubes are condom safe. Most condoms already have lube on it so to be safe but a little extra will not hurt. I would not suggest anything oil based if you are using condoms. Oil causes condoms to tear.

A quick condom tip: Put the lube INSIDE the condom as well as outside the condom. Makes sex feel 100x better. For other ways to make condom sex better, check out Make Condom Sex Great Again.

Favorite Overall Lubes:

Wet Organics. Can be used for any type of sexual activity. Doesn’t smell, doesn’t get sticky and is water based. Click HERE to purchase! Best price.

BabeLube Silk. It’s a hybrid lube meaning it lasts longing because of silicone and doesn’t dry out fast like water based. Very Silky.

Favorite lubes brands that specialize in vaginal health: 

Good Clean Love. Water based. Organic ingredients… Stays way longer than most water based lubes. Click Here to check them out.

Sliquid. Also natural ingredients and mimics the wetness the body naturally produces. Get it HERE OR HERE … both stores are great.

Favorite Anal Sex Lube:

Intimate Earth Anal Silicone Lubricant. Has muscle relaxing properties from an extract from a chamomile plant but does not numb. Natural ingredients and extra slippery. Click HERE or HERE to see their whole collection.

The silicone based lubes are hypoallergenic and longer lasting but it’s not good for sex toys because silcone reacts to itself and could deteriorate the surface of silicone toys.

Water based lubes are easy on the skin and it washes off easy.

You can make your own natural sex lube with this recipe. It’s quick to make, there’s only TWO super safe ingredients and it’s CONDOM FRIENDLY. 

You would need:

one cup of water

4 tablespoons of cornstarch 


container to store ingredients 


Mix the water and cornstarch in the pan

Turn the heat on low to medium

To prevent lumpy lube, you have to continuously stir the ingredients until it is boiling.

Let it cool off, pour into the container.

There are also products and ingredients that you may have laying around the house that you can use as a homemade lube. Oils such as olive oil, coconut oil, vitamin e oil and almond oil are safe to use on your sexual body parts. However, oils are not condom friendly. For condom safe, use PURE aloe vera gel. 

We can always go the old fashioned way when you’re with partner(s): foreplay and oral sex. There is no other lube like saliva. 

Check out the links below, especially Good Clean Love. Look around and choose the best sex lubes for you.

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